Darren Young On Which WWE Star Called Him Gay Before He Came Out, His Mom Being Gay, Bob Backlund

Darren Young, who is currently sidelined after suffering a devastating injury to his elbow in January, recently sat down with former WWE star Sean “X-Pac” Waltman on X-Pac 12360 to chat about life and wrestling. Highlights from the interview are as follows:

How long he’s been gay:

โ€œI always knew I just suppressed my feelings. Just fear of judgment you know fear of losing friends soโ€ฆ For thirty years Iโ€™m thirty-three now for thirty years I just lived my life not being myself so just imagine you know. Think of your most down moment youโ€™re in life and times it by ten thatโ€™s how I felt. Just imagine not being able to be like other normal couples. Thatโ€™s what I wanted to be ultimately as I grew up. I wanted to be like normal couples. I want to be able to hold hands in public and be affectionate when the time is right in a classy way. But that was my main goal that was my main goal and I accomplished it by coming out to TMZ.โ€

Mark Henry called Darren gay before he came out:

โ€œWhen I first came up on the roster I had I had hair like Enzo (Amore) kind of it was spiky and stuff like that. So, Mark Henry, you know how he is. Heโ€™s just sitting there in the locker and heโ€™s like, and this is a couple months on the road and heโ€™s like,โ€Boyโ€ and heโ€™s long winded. โ€œBoy why you got your hair like that?โ€ Again I can say this story because heโ€™s going to be putting this in his book so I told him, โ€œHey when I have an opportunity to tell this story Iโ€™m going to tell it because I donโ€™t want to at first offend him but heโ€™s okay with it so again heโ€™s sitting there, โ€œBoy why you got your hair like that?โ€ I said, โ€œMark (biting my nails) Mark Iโ€™m just trying to be different. Iโ€™m just trying to stand out.โ€ โ€œ Well you know it makes you look gay.โ€ And this was before I came out so Iโ€™m just stuttering like I am now Mark Mark Iโ€™m just trying to be different man you know. And then fast-forward to when I like came out. The morning I came out he called me, this was in LA at the hotel he called me He called me he said,โ€Come down to the green room.โ€ This was during SummerSlamโ€ฆ I went down to the green room and he gave me the biggest hug and he was like, โ€œMan how come you didnโ€™t tell me?โ€ I was like, โ€œMark I didnโ€™t tell nobody. You know how hard it is for me.โ€ And Mark said you know in his book when he writes a bookโ€ฆ one of the chapters is going to be about me and the caption is going to be, Insert foot in mouth.โ€

Cher contacted Darren after he came out:

โ€œBefore I came out you know fans are fans they love you or hate you but when I made my announcement (Coming out on TMZ) I didnโ€™t realize how much of an impact I had made on peopleโ€™s lives. Of all people when I came out Cher contacted me via Twitter and she said you know because of my story that made it comfortable for one of her friends whoโ€™s a wrestling fan to come out to his family so I said wow thatโ€™s amazing. I couldnโ€™t believe it. I still hadnโ€™t met her yet so hopefully some day in the near future we could link up.โ€

Darren reveals for the first time that his mom is also gay:

โ€œNo no neverโ€ฆ brought up to thinking that gay was bad. A lot of people donโ€™t know but my Mom is actually gay. This is the first time Iโ€™m saying this to you our any podcast. This is something I was going to save for my YouTube but yeah my Mom’s actually gay. And sheโ€™s been gay for a long time my parents live together you know financially theyโ€™re best friends and financially just good for them to stay together you know theyโ€™re friendsโ€ฆ But I knew my Mom was gay and I was always that type of guy that kind of looked down upon it like an idiot. Iโ€™d look down upon it or Iโ€™d be around my friends and theyโ€™d say, โ€œoh thatโ€™s gay.โ€ Iโ€™d be like, โ€œoh yeah yeah.โ€ Iโ€™d jump on board like an idiot man. Now never again.โ€

Why he’s being managed by Bob Backlund:

โ€œWell the reason why I came up with this idea was you know tag-teams donโ€™t last forever so once I was done teaming with Titus(Oโ€™Neil) I was kind of down and out and I kind of needed a life coach to kind of pick me up so I kind of took the idea from Mike Tyson and his former trainer Cus (Dโ€™Amato) so like they had an unusual relationship and Mike Tyson was you know locked in on Cus so I said why not bring Bob Backlund because weโ€™ve done a lot of speaking engagements together before hand I said I want to bring Bob back as my life coach and I went to Vince McMahon with visuals and I had it written out and he (Vince McMahon) bought into it, he enjoyed it. This was my idea.”